James Barker Raymer III

James Barker Raymer III

Husband • Father • Son • Brother • Uncle • Friend

November 23, 1977 – August 7, 2025

James “Jamie” Raymer passed away peacefully on August 7, 2025, surrounded by his loving family. He was 47 years old.

Born in Charlotte, North Carolina, on November 23, 1977, Jamie is survived by his wife, Bethany Raymer and children: Emelia, Theron, and Isabella (Olive) in Kannapolis; mother, Sandra Brown, Little River, SC; sister Erin Noah (Fred), nieces Katie and Samantha, Mooresville, NC; Father, James B Raymer Jr. (Marie), Charlotte, brother, David Michael (Michael) Raymer (Margaret) Raleigh.

Jamie was preceded in death by his grandparents Dr. James B Raymer Sr and Opal Raymer, and uncle Robert Raymer, Charlotte.

Jamie was a man defined by love—for his family, friends, and the simple joys of life. He was present and attentive, a steady and reliable source of comfort. His humor brought light to dark days, and his kindness left a lasting impact on all who knew him.

Jamie grew up in a close-knit extended family where family gatherings were cherished traditions.

Jamie and his sister, Erin Noah, always had a special bond marked by lighthearted teasing and playful banter. Jamie embraced his role as uncle with love and enthusiasm, cherishing every moment watching Katie and Samantha grow up.

Jamie was loved and supported by his stepmother, Marie Raymer, and his brother David Michael Raymer who affectionately called him JJ. The brothers bonded over various sports, gaming (Mario) and NASCAR. Together with his wife, Margaret Raymer, were supportive through life's challenges, everyday joys and milestones.

As an enthusiast of RC cars and racing, Jamie loved the thrill of speed and competition. He was a fan of football and was excited to explore his artistic side through spray paint art.

On April 29, 2017, Jamie married Bethany Raymer. Their union was more than a marriage—it was a profound soul connection, marked by unwavering love and deep commitment. Jamie became a devoted stepfather to Olive Noah, offering her gentle guidance and support.

Jamie held onto hope that their family’s story was still unfolding. Though met with the loss of a baby in utero, he quickly welcomed his daughter, Emelia Raymer. He poured gentle wisdom and playful affection into her and then found boundless joy in the hugs and snuggles of his son, Theron Raymer, cherishing every moment of fatherhood. He kissed his children’s heads daily—a quiet testament to the blessings they were in his life.

Together with his family, Jamie helped build Sweet BE’s Design, a business rooted in nature, spirit, and creativity. This endeavor reflected his craftsmanship, attention to detail, and appreciation for the beauty in the world around him.

A celebration of Jamie’s life will be held, followed by a reception for friends and family to share stories and honor his legacy.

Please join us:

Raymer-Kepner Funeral Home

16901 Old Statesville Road

Huntersville, NC 28078

August 17th, 2025 • 2:00 p.m.

Jamie will be missed beyond measure. His light lives on in the laughter of his children, the love he planted in others, and the eternal flame he shares with Bethany. His story is not over.

Online memories and condolences may be shared at www.kepnerfh.com